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Premarital Counseling

PREPARE Assessment

 

 Research has proven that selection of a mate and skills training are critical to the success of any marriage. 

 The PREPARE Assessment is an excellent tool to assess a couple’s strengths and need

for growth in ten specific areas. Premarital counseling covers the topics of communication,

expectations, personality profiles assessment, finances and fair versus dirty fighting.

 

MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP COACHING

 

First Session—

ORIENTATION & IN-TAKE INTERVIEW

  • Reason for appointment/problem areas

  • History of relationship

  • Assessment of strengths and growth areas

  

Second Session—

HIS NEEDS/HER NEEDS

  • Key needs of men and women in relationships

  • Exercise to determine the needs of each spouse

  • Marriage Rituals

  

Third Session—

PERSONALITY PROFILES

  • Personality profile and assessment with explanations

  • How to cope with your differences

  • Acceptance exercise

 

Fourth Session—

COMMUNICATION

  • Unraveling the puzzle of communication between the sexes

  • Empathic listening and sharing

 

Fifth Session—

FAIR FIGHTING VERSUS DIRTY FIGHTING

  • Dr. Gottman’s four horses of the Apocalypse

  • Dirty fighting techniques versus fair fighting

  • Steps to fair fighting

 

Sixth Session—

REVIEW AND ASSESSMENT

Review sessions and outcomes/progress

Recommendations for couple to implement

 

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Marriage Counseling

ENRICH Marital Assessment

 Getting the help you need is so very important. Don’t wait until too much damage

has been done to reach out for help. A few counseling sessions could make a BIG difference

in your relationship. Counseling is biblically based with dependence on God for HIS wisdom,

insight and discretion in the specific issue addressed. Many couples have seen God

heal their marriages when they are guided through the necessary

steps and take responsibility for their part. 

 

 

The PREPARE premarital and ENRICH marital assessments are

specifically designed with the following goals in mind:

 

·         Explore your Relationship Strengths and Growth Areas

·         Strengthen your communication skills, including assertiveness and active listening

·         Resolve conflicts through use of the Ten Steps procedure

·         Explore your relationship and family-of-origin issues

·         Develop a budget and financial plan

·         Develop your personal, couple and family goals

 


Servant Leadership

 

Sessions are 1 hour and 15 minutes each

for a cost of $65.00 per session for a total of $390 for six sessions.

A small investments that will reap great dividends.

 

Sessions are held at:

313 Fords Lane

 Aberdeen, MD 21001

 

*To set up your coaching sessions contact:

Norma Tilton at 410-671-9056 or e-mail to servlead@comcast.net

 

**Norma Tilton is a Marriage Educator and Coach and Motivational Speaker. 

She has worked for eight years as a Management Consultant and Trainer in her own business,

Servant Leadership.  She is a member of the American Association of Christian Counselors. 

She and her husband, Neil, have a passion to help couples have healthy, growing relationships. 

 For more information, contact them at servlead@comcast.net